It is unmanly to bar women from having access to control, as it shows unmanly fear of losing it.
Makkaque from UK (Mainland)
10th April 2010

definitely not..and please everyone dont get lost is metaphysicals of control
zeniorito paul from United States
10th August 2009

no!!!
michael from Sweden
10th February 2009

it depends on what your own view of manliness is or means to you
helen from Australia
11th February 2009

absolutly NOT
Helena from UK (Offshore)
11th February 2009

There is strength in sharing control with eachother. Gender should never be a reason to discrininate
Marc from Australia
11th February 2009

Just the opposite. Strong men know how to share power.
mclean from Australia
11th February 2009

No. Each sex brings its own skills and expertise yet without one there cannot be the other.
aussieman09 from Australia
11th February 2009

I am a manifestation of God and she is the goddess. No one controls, we dance, we love, we ARE.
ramgiri from United States
11th May 2009

i think men should have control but whilst in the relationship, men should show more understanding
alan from UK (Mainland)
11th November 2008

Control is an illusion and therefore can only be shared if two share the illusion.
sunflower from United States
12th April 2009

NO
Dezza from Australia
12th February 2009

Absolutely not. Women should share control. Maybe the world would be a better place.
Graham from Australia
12th February 2009

unmanly is not to share it, and not to lose it as they love...
Iq from Guatemala
12th January 2009

no
gmanz from United States
12th January 2009

Only if you want war would you consider a difference between Men and Women regarding how things are.
steviek6 from United States
12th May 2010

No... it has never crossed my mind.
Butch from Philippines
13th January 2010

It is inhumane for man to feel he should have control over woman
slushrocker from United States
13th June 2009

No its More manly to share than to stand by yourself.
McKitkat from UK (Mainland)
13th November 2008

No. I think it shows strength of character to know that any partnership can be stronger together.
Catherine from Canada
13th November 2008

All human beings are equal. The only thing we should control is our thoughtsm words & deeds.
Hans from Australia
13th October 2009

no way. my wife & I are equal partners in cocreation.
drumflight from United States
14th January 2009

Surely this is not a serious question, is it? If it is, then this is my response!
Sanguinespirit from UK (Mainland)
14th May 2010

no it is not unmanly..it is wonderful to share control
virgoasp from New Zealand
15th April 2009

The only real hope for the planet is through the change that a woman can bring. nurture vs compete,
deseye from Australia
15th February 2009

Its to be human when you see that you get more out of sharing !
Eliisa from Sweden
15th February 2009

No, each relationship is dynamic. There is no right way. Control may be exercised by either or share
JorgesAntoine24 from UK (Mainland)
15th July 2009

no
roger from UK (Mainland)
15th March 2009

What does this really mean...share control? Is our creator a man or a woman or both or gender free?
Ali from UK (Mainland)
15th May 2010

If it is manly to fear the power of women, if you feel too small to allow yourself to be vulnerable
Bagle Bagle from UK (Mainland)
16th April 2009

This is such a stupid question. Why would anyone want to control anyone, man or women.
sarah from United States
16th April 2009

no and is it about control or need?
wens from New Zealand
16th August 2009

no, especially with children, they need to know that we all have power
Veloved from United States
16th June 2009

No
IanBlakesley from UK (Mainland)
16th March 2009

No
ianskeema from UK (Mainland)
16th March 2009

No
Suzanne from UK (Mainland)
16th November 2008

Women and men are like two wings of a bird and the bird needs both wings in order to fly. I
Veronica from United States
17th February 2010

It is necessary to attain World Peace!
Crystal* from Canada
17th January 2009

what has masculinity got to do with sharing responsibilities with a woman who is as competent?
Ado from Australia
17th January 2010

control ? the bain of this human experience .. we are all equals ..in spirit
Rana from Australia
17th July 2009

no. it is onmanly to me when they are affraid of this. its called childish.
Lise-Lotte Sundahl from Denmark
17th May 2010

no.its unmanly to me when they are affraid of this. Its called childish
Lise-Lotte S from Denmark
17th May 2010

Is it unwomanly to want it? Does one have to be in control to survive?
Vanessassary from UK (Mainland)
17th October 2009

What is unmanly? If there is no such thing as manly or unmanly, is this question even valid?
chan from Korea, Republic of
17th October 2009

no
bercem from Turkey
17th September 2009

It is unmanly not to.
srauworth from United States
18th December 2008

Unmanly only for those who are still in control of their fears. Confidence encourages and shares.
IrinaO from Philippines
18th January 2009

No, but it is unmanly to deny that you already do.
accidental_librarian from Canada
18th July 2010

Of course NOT! Man and women are two parts of the same thing.
phreaknoize from Germany
18th September 2009

of course not,we are all equall
matt wilson from UK (Mainland)
1st April 2010

No.
Mike from Australia
1st March 2009

Yes because man always know themselves, superior to woman.
unqlyme from New Zealand
20th April 2009

No
Bubblyjack from UK (Mainland)
20th July 2009

No, its probably a good idea, given men seem to like to resolve issues with conflict.
alfyboy1967 from Australia
20th July 2010

No. Maybe the pagans had it right when they worshiped the Godess!
katmagus from United States
20th March 2009

not at all
nick from UK (Mainland)
20th May 2010

No its a wise thing to do. About me, i just need some kinde of peace in my minde, but im lisning :)
lost soul from Denmark
20th November 2008

Not at all.. Its a wise thing to do. Im just in a situation wher freedom means everything. Help me..
obsessed from Denmark
20th November 2008

Control is about power. If a man is uncomfortable with sharing then he must feel impotent, insecure.
GOLDEN from UK (Mainland)
20th October 2009

Man and Woman are 2 aspects of God united in eternity, capable of realising this as love here.
NealYes from Australia
21st April 2009

absolutely not. We are all equal.
Catiepai from New Zealand
21st February 2009

control of what? isnt that malespeak? (fucking worthless countrychuser)
zangano from Algeria
21st November 2009

no
frans from Netherlands
22nd February 2010

no
frans from Netherlands
22nd February 2010

they are already in control
mayanone from United States
22nd November 2008

It IS Manly to Share control with women
Fiona Mathews from UK (Mainland)
23rd April 2009

No.
crdf from Bulgaria
23rd April 2010

nope, happens all the time...
silvia from Sweden
24th August 2010

Why would it be except for fear.
Peterhd from South Africa
24th February 2009

yes
whynot from Jordan
24th May 2010

It will free men from subjugating women.
gladysmulligan from UK (Offshore)
25th March 2009

no
moulla from UK (Mainland)
25th September 2009

Tynope your answer here to join in the debate and become part of the army
moulla from UK (Mainland)
25th September 2009

no
adoria from Romania
26th January 2010

absolutely not!
joemoe from UK (Mainland)
26th July 2010

no
yiannis from Greece
26th June 2010

No It is Manly
Neda from Australia
27th May 2009

we are all people! celebrate life!
IsidoraD from Netherlands
27th November 2008

No! Unmanlyness is when control becomes more important than the intelligence of not knowing.
ADF from UK (Mainland)
28th February 2009

Not at all, it shows how much of a man you can really be....sharing...being....!!
robin from United States
28th January 2009

Nope
Leigh Wood from Australia
28th November 2008

What control? Birth control?
Adriane Hartigan from New Zealand
29th April 2009

Define control. I believe that we all are basically equal as humans and have to use our strengths
christine from Canada
29th December 2008

where were the women onyour journey of inspiration at home doing the dishes?
norma fletcher from UK (Mainland)
29th January 2009

The masculine force is direction. The feminine is love. Control is falsely generated for comfort!
ethanfranc from Australia
29th July 2009

NOT AT ALL
JUNGLE from UK (Mainland)
2nd April 2009

it is human to give and take . . . the most alluring men need not control
beba329 from United States
2nd December 2009

1111
slay from Russian Federation
2nd July 2010

what kind of phenomenon is manly anyway??
openskysongs from Denmark
30th December 2008

Nobody has control over anything. Just an illusion...a awsome laugh
Gerd from Germany
30th September 2009

No, defenetly NOT!
Petra Nieto from Sweden
31st March 2009

not an answer, just a feel.what about me gives me hope to live, to love, to respect, to give. thanks
joanes from Portugal
31st May 2009

yes... its humanity
kesslinger from United States
4th April 2009

not at all
brett from United States
4th April 2009

How can it ever be unmanly? It has to be the only way. Inclusion not exclusion, always.
martin99 from UK (Mainland)
4th January 2009

i am a woman, so it is about sharing control in general - is it possible to share control at all?
phoenix from Bulgaria
4th November 2008

Of course not... women deserve equal status in everything in this world.
buddhitree from Ireland
4th November 2008

No, it is the bigger man who can see who should control in a given situation.
indieheart from UK (Mainland)
5th April 2010

quite the opposite is feel its "womanly" to come out of the closet and directly take control
Bruce Davidson from United States
5th May 2009

Is is unwomanly to share control with a woman or a man? Do you really control anything?
oktobuy from United States
5th May 2009

certainly not, why should it ever have been thought to be? Occasionally sexism is reversed, bad move
Anthony from UK (Mainland)
5th November 2008

The opposite - mature and the only way to live in peace.
zehra from Germany
5th November 2008

Of course not..anyway...women are much better at control than men
Sunny from UK (Mainland)
6th April 2010

No way
lfrires from United States
6th December 2008

Whether we believe it or not, we always have & always will. All relationships are equal.
Sri Gyan James McCau from United States
6th July 2009

no its not unmanly to share the control with a women, because without them there would be no control
joe doh from UK (Mainland)
6th November 2008

fuck no!.
drewski from UK (Offshore)
7th June 2009

the question is ... control of what?
wendylucky from United States
7th November 2008

In a word, no.
peters from Canada
7th November 2008

Not at all; it shows real strength and trust.
Freedom from UK (Mainland)
7th November 2008

No
jabu from Denmark
8th February 2009

No.
kamurray82 from UK (Mainland)
8th June 2009

Absafuckinutely not!
soundchaser from United States
9th December 2008

no. Sharing of anything is good. Who makes the rules in the first place?
eltha from United States
9th December 2008